First Date After Divorce: Rebound Purpose?!

Going through a divorce is one of the most stressful things anyone can do. You will have mixed feelings about it, and different people adapt to these changes at various stages. You may feel sadness, relief, freedom, loneliness, happiness, or a whole range of other emotions. Whenever you start dating again, though, you may feel that you are just on the rebound! Here’s some tips to get you through the first few dates.

Tip # 1 Only date when you’re ready.

Don’t feel pushed into dating by friends or family. Wait until you feel completely ready to start dating again. This maybe weeks, months or even years after your divorce. Only you can tell.

Tip # 2 Feel confident.

Like with any date, make sure you are feeling confident and prepared. Buy yourself a new outfit, get your hair done, or do whatever you need to feel as good as you can do.

Tip # 3 Don‘t talk about divorce!

When on the first few dates, avoid the topic of divorce. By all means, mention it so that your date knows your situation, but please do not dwell on the topic, and certainly don’t go into details of your past relationship.

Tip # 4 Don’t treat your date like your ex.

After a marriage and divorce, you may be somewhat set in stone with your perspective on dating and how the opposite gender should act. Try to forget all of this and start afresh. A new partner could open up a whole new world of opportunities, so go into it with a blank slate, an open heart and a big smile.