When A Guy Cancels A First Date

It can be very disappointing if a date you’ve been looking forward to gets cancelled. When a guy cancels your first date, you’ll probably wonder why, and if he’ll reschedule it. It really depends on the specific situation so try not to be too upset, and consider the following:

1. Important things do come up, and plans sometimes have to change. He is probably just as disappointed as you are that he has had to cancel it.

2. He might feel that he has let you down, so try not to be angry with him. Give him another chance if you still want to date him.

3. If he has stood you up, bear in mind that there could be a reason for it. Perhaps there was a family emergency, or his car broke down. Give him the chance to explain himself, and if you still want to date him, rearrange that first date!

4. Don’t be upset if a guy cancels your first date for no apparent reason. He might be very shy, or have a personal issue which he’s not ready to discuss with you.

5. Don’t get hung up on a guy that repeatedly cancels your dates. You deserve to know where you stand. If you have a hunch that something is up, then just politely tell him that you are no longer interested in dating him.

6. If he’s decided that for some reason he doesn’t want to date you, it’s better that you find out now, rather than in a few weeks or months when you’ve grown more fond of him. Dating is supposed to be fun, so pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on!